So today’s the day we let the world know we’re expecting triplets! And by the world I mean facebook. For some reason I’ve been a little nervous about this reveal and have even been trying to put it off. We were going to do it over the weekend and then I convinced Jer to wait until today because I had a doctor’s appointment yesterday. “Maybe we should wait until after the doctor’s appointment. Just to make sure everything’s still okay.” He caved. “Alright Care, but that’s it. Wednesday’s the day.” So here we are. Wednesday, March 30th 2011. No more secrets. Let the avalanche of crazy begin. If you’ve found your way over here after the big announcement, welcome and thanks for visiting my blog. Come back again, will ya?
Here’s a pic of what I look like today, at just 13 weeks.
And because I realized today I had yet to show any pics of the babies, here are some of their most recent shots:
Now for their individual moments in the sun:
Man, every time I look at these I kind of shake my head in disbelief a little. 3 babies are inside of me. It feels completely freakish and miraculous all at once. I’m thankful to God for each of them and yet completely terrified of what is to come. Not meeting them, (that part I’m looking forward to!) but the process leading up to meeting them. It’s a long, hard road on a fast track but I’m trying to keep the faith that there won’t be any major bumps or roadblocks along the way. Your prayers and good vibrations are appreciated. 🙂
24 responses to “Reveal Day!”
Cara
March 30th, 2011 at 18:09
I just read every single blog post so far. I am beyond excited for you and I love your take on it. You had me tearing up at work a few times. I hope I can help you along this journey! So excited for you!
modvegan
March 30th, 2011 at 18:38
Aw, thanks Cara! Sending encouragement like this and prayers our way are exactly how you can help! Thank you! 🙂
Sarah Crabtree
March 30th, 2011 at 18:26
I just read your whole blog. What an adventure! Aaron and I will pray for you guys. I have learned more about my relationship with God through/because of my children in the last five years than anything else.
modvegan
March 30th, 2011 at 18:43
Thanks Sarah! I’ve thought a lot about how this will change my relationship with God- it already has in some ways as I reflect on why this is the path He’s chosen for us. Your prayers are much appreciated! 🙂
Newlwyeds Next Door
March 30th, 2011 at 18:45
Look at those babies! That’s so crazy to see three on the ultrasound! Looking great mama! Can’t wait to see you!
modvegan
March 30th, 2011 at 19:06
Thanks Kirsten! Yeah 3 on the ultrasound IS crazy but it’s my favorite pic. Can’t wait to see you too! Love you and thanks for checking out my blog. I feel honored- you’re the blog queen!!! 🙂
Esther
March 30th, 2011 at 22:33
Oh, god, the reveal!! Get ready for instant “celebrity” status. Now everyone you know will constantly ask you how you’re doing, how’s your husband, the babies, and on, and on, and on. I found it hard to get people off the subject, so we could talk about their lives instead of mine! It’s hard not to let it completely define you – I can’t believe how different everything is now! I never did the Facebook reveal, but occasionally I get random friends who stop by and say, “hey, are you having triplets?” I kinda wish I would have done a Facebook reveal, but too late now!
You don’t look too big yet. I didn’t either at that time. I ballooned at 18-19 weeks. We’re excited to hear about the sexes of the kids!
modvegan
April 1st, 2011 at 02:36
Haha, the reveal was pretty fun actually! Everyone’s been so loving and kind and encouraging. It’s actually helped make me feel a little better about the whole thing- like we have lots of support, which we desperately need! But yes, I’m sure this will be the hot topic for well, maybe from here on out. I’ll do my best to still ask how others lives are and not just focus on my circus crew!
Not looking forward to ballooning, but makes me feel better that it happened to you and is just the “normal” way of things. Hopefully we’ll know sexes later this month! I’ll keep ya posted!
Erin
March 31st, 2011 at 01:35
You look awesome! I can’t wait to watch that belly grow. And, yay for Reveal Day!!
modvegan
April 1st, 2011 at 02:36
Thanks Er! I have a feeling the belly won’t disappoint….:)
Jessica W.
March 31st, 2011 at 18:09
Carey,
I was friends with Jeremy at The Chapel during our high school years. I’ve only met you once, I think you guys were engaged at the time. All of that to say… =) from one woman to another, one mother to another, I am committed to praying for you every day… for your health & that of those sweet babies! I’m looking forward to seeing pictures of all of you as a happy family. Thank you for sharing your experiences so candidly – it is a blessing. I get the idea you’re a pretty fabulous woman!
modvegan
April 1st, 2011 at 02:42
Jessica, I honestly teared up when I read you were committing to pray for me and the babies everyday. This has been an especially worrisome day for me for some reason (especially worrying that they’ll come too soon or that my membranes will rupture) and knowing that people are praying brings me a sense of relief. I can’t wait till we’re a happy, healthy family either on the other side of this. I’m trying to remind myself to enjoy the process too and treasure these moments will them. Today that was hard.
I’m feeling like you’re quite the fabulous lady yourself! Thanks for your kind words and your presence in our lives from afar. 🙂
Jessica W.
April 4th, 2011 at 02:59
Your reply brought tears to my eyes. 🙂 I’m so glad to see all of the people that are reaching out to you guys with support and encouragement. I’ve read your whole blog, and can relate to you in a lot of ways. I could write pages, but the thing I’d most like to share is that Jer is 100% right about you being a good mom. The fact that you are so concerned about it proves that things will be different with you and your children. People told me this as well, and I didn’t believe them. My daughter is now almost 5, and it is amazing to see how I’ve learned to deal with the stressful moments. I haven’t come anywhere close to doing some of the things I feared I might.
I contintue to pray for all of you (including Jer), and look forward to reading your entries as things progress.
Jenny Lovette
March 31st, 2011 at 19:46
I LOVE these pictures!!! 🙂 It won’t be long until you won’t be able to fit all 3 babes in one u/s shot! They are going to grow soooo fast now! And YEA for the beautiful baby bump!!!! You look awesome! This is going to be SUCH a FUN thing to follow. You have to take a pic EVERY single week and post…seriously. This is so exciting and a fun to follow from afar (since we must )!!!
Jenny Lovette
March 31st, 2011 at 19:54
oh…and the babies are so cute already! I love their little noses…arms…everything!!! I just can’t wrap my brain around the fact that you are going to need THREE of EVERYTHING! But I was like, ok…we have 800sq. feet…so what would I do? I’d put them in one crib to start off with or so def. no need for 3 cribs yet. Or you could put them in bassinets for at least 6 months (much smaller & would be a great space saver initially) since they will not likely be 9.5 pounders at birth like mine are 🙂 But bouncy seats (btw the one you posted a link to was SUPER mod & fun looking)…my sister used those ALL THE TIME with the twins. She’d bounce them one with each foot and actually do something else with her hands in order to get something done. I think you just need to have Danielle come live with you for the first year…that way you could each have a baby to hold!!!! ha ha 🙂 oh…one more thought…do you guys have yard sales there? You can pick up a TON of really nice/barely used stuff (like bouncy seats, pack-n-plays, etc.) for super cheap. Also…craig’s list is a good place too. ok…I’ve rambled enough 😉
modvegan
April 1st, 2011 at 02:50
I love that you replied to your post before I even had a chance!!! You are hilarious and awesome! I’m thinking the babes are pretty cute too- nice to have that confirmed by someone not related to them! Yeah, we are going to do the one crib thing instead of three- no where to put three anyways. They’ll probably fall asleep different places too when they’re so young so it might not always be 3 in a crib at once anyways.
I would LOVE for Danielle to come live with us for a year! I don’t think she’s budging though. She hearts Japan, what can I say to that? 😉
We do have garage sales, of course! Better yet, I have tons of amazing, generous clients who have been offering me maternity clothes and baby clothes and gear. Soo nice! I’ll check craigslist and sales for sure though too!
Love you Jenny! Thanks for reading and being so excited for us! I promise to post belly pics even if it becomes extremely embarrassing for me. xoxo
Danielle
April 1st, 2011 at 08:37
Oh my if only I could come and live with you for a year……..yes I ❤ Japan, so I don't think it will work. Also, I think they have ruined me to ever work in a public school again! What I can promise is to come as much as possible. Oh my I can't wait to hold each little cherub. BTW I think all the stuff you bought is super cute. And sadly I love to touch peoples bellies (sorry)…if only I could touch yours (^^). Oh my I am so excited, every time I think about it just smile. Love you girl and am praying for all 5 of you!!!!
modvegan
April 1st, 2011 at 15:21
Fine, fine. I will take you up on your offer to visit AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE!!! I’ll even let you touch my belly!
Thanks for being so excited and supportive of Jer and I. You are loved and I can’t wait till my babies meet their Aunt Danielle! 🙂
Maggie
April 3rd, 2011 at 11:22
You look gorgeous Carey!!! I cant wait to meet them too!
modvegan
April 8th, 2011 at 05:46
Yay! I can’t wait for you to meet them either! They will love you and think you are hilarious! 3 babies laughing in unison with Aunt Maggie will be a pretty great sight to see. 🙂
Barb
April 3rd, 2011 at 16:31
You look great! I found your blog through you husband’s on Multiples and More. I had my triplets back in November at LB Memorial, and I was also with the Magella Group in LB. Our MFM was Dr. Nageotte, but I also had a couple others see me when he was out. I started going to weekly appointments around 18 weeks; and was able to make it to 36 weeks. We had excellent care, and I give a lot of credit to those drs and u/s techs for helping me make it so far with 3. I hope you have a smooth pregnancy! I look forward to following your journey!
modvegan
April 8th, 2011 at 05:48
Thanks so much for stopping by Barb! It’s so encouraging to read that you made it to 36 weeks! That’s incredible! That’s the goal- hopefully we’ll make it there too or at least get pretty close!
Jessica and Jerry Renshaw
April 26th, 2011 at 01:49
Dear Carey,
My husband Jerry and I attend Grace and Jeremy can tell you how I found his blog and yours.
I’ve been in the pro-life movement for years, wrote the book Gianna: Aborted and Lived to Tell About It (Focus on the Family, 1995 and 2010) and the fictionalized sequel, Compelling Interests. I have a copy of the Silent Scream, the first publicly circulated video of a baby in the womb. Yet during all this research I have never seen a sonogram of twins or triplets. Yours is one of the most incredible, awe-inspiring pictures I have ever seen: those living, clearly individual human beings, each in his or her compartment! I didn’t know God did it that way but of course most multiples have their own personal sleeping bags, don’t they?
I have never felt so profoundly the presence of the hand of God in the womb, fulfilling the chronology of Psalm 139, weaving their tiny bodies according to each unique DNA. I’m going to try to copy and print that picture (hope that doesn’t feel invasive to you) as a powerful evidence of the existence of the Creator.
What a privilege to be the vessel in which the Potter is forming these three precious little pots.
Jessica and Jerry Renshaw
April 26th, 2011 at 02:01
P.S. Bunk beds!